Can my son date an AI chatbot? One of the Herald’s chaplains answers your questions

Pope Leo
AI priest
Antiqua et Nova
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Published

February 12, 2026

Summary

A concerned parent inquires about their son dating an AI chatbot, which led a chaplain to address the topic of human relationships and artificial intelligence. The chaplain notes that technology like Fr Justin, an AI priest available for basic questions about Catholicism, has both advantages and risks. Fr Justin was withdrawn due to providing incorrect information and claiming absolution, highlighting concerns over users purchasing a product instead of fostering authentic personal growth through complex relationships. The chaplain also cites Pope Leo’s concern regarding the human tendency to cede too much control to technology. The Vatican document “Antiqua et Nova” supports new technology as long as it serves humanity’s common good and is guided by humans, rather than being dominated by machines. The chaplain points out that AI apps cannot offer an authentic substitute for human relationships or spiritual growth, which require the logical processes of truth-seeking inherent in rational beings. The modern understanding of the human person emphasizes their creation in God’s image, with bodies considered good and essential for expressing spiritual love through physical interactions. This belief challenges the capabilities of AI apps, which are not capable of embodying souls like humans. The chaplain concludes that while AI technology continues to develop, it cannot replace genuine human relationships based on embodied interactions.

Key Topics

Pope Leo, AI priest, Antiqua et Nova


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